Rejection sucks

They say that there's a time for everything. A time to hate and a time to love. A time to play and a time to be serious. A time to watch and a time to act and do something. And then a time of rejection? Oh wow. just.... wow. Even after all the efforts you made? REALLY?!?! EVERYTHING goes to the trash?!?!?! oh... sorry about that. ANYWAY...

Rejection is no ordinary thing. Especially if the receiver had so much efforts just to see a future they were working so hard to accomplish. Like men. When they court someone with all that they have, they give it their all. Sacrificing themselves just to be with someone who they love. Doing almost anything just to see them happy and then they're friendzoned?!?!?! Wtf? really? why.. why would you do this? you could have said something from the 1st place. And our efforts wouldn't have been for naught. Why do loyal men always get rejected and playboys are always accepted? Do you really want bad boys that much? WHOOOAAAA... hold on to your stakes and forks girls. Im not yet done.

Getting rejected might be painful, but we must always consider why they did it. Dont just think that they did this because they dont like me. Or maybe that my efforts wasn't enough. Or i was just plain ugly. DONT THINK THAT WAY. There's always a reason for everything. Some of their reasons might be logical. Like wanting a good future and studying all the way till they get a high paying job and then come back to you and start the relationship you're waiting for. Or maybe, they want to be better first so that they wont hurt you in the end. SO MUCH REASONS. Yet the results are still the same. The receiver will always be hurt. The receiver will always have a life changing moment and will be forced to change based on the situation they faced which led them to their rejection. This is one of the reasons why loyal men sometimes turn into playboy assholes and play with almost everyone. Revenge? no. More like being confident in a better person they've become. A person who won't be rejected anymore. Changing into those kinds of men is still a choice though. And everyone has the right to choose how to live their lives.

Rejection is painful. It hurts a lot. A LOT. But it doesn't really matter. Rejections is normal. The only question that matters is, how will you deal with it? :)